Not wanting to see things.

10 Comments

  1. Rachel Holmen
    Rachel Holmen March 9, 2019 at 11:43 pm .

    I had a lover who was in poor health; facing that, telling him he could die when he hurt too much to live, talling him how much I loved him, helped avoid any of the “if only I had said…” reactions that come after some deaths. And I made a few plans for my own care, since I knew I’d be too numb to think. Thirty-odd years later, I still cry.

  2. Rachel Holmen
    Rachel Holmen March 9, 2019 at 11:44 pm .

    PS to previous comment:

    But I would not have missed a moment of the time I spent with him, for anything.

  3. Barbara Bengels
    Barbara Bengels March 10, 2019 at 12:13 am .

    This made me so sad– and scared. But thank you for posting.

  4. Betty Anne Hull.
    Betty Anne Hull. March 13, 2019 at 5:17 am .

    Glad to hear Jim’s doing well and hope to see him for the Campbell weekend. You too, Kik, of course.

  5. Chris McKitterick
    Chris McKitterick March 18, 2019 at 4:12 am .

    Oh, it’s been so hard and scary to watch this, while at the same time it seems he’s incredibly tough.

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